White Mom + Black Hair

I love my natural hair. It’s really lovely if I do say so myself.  I am not the type of girl who likes to spend hours getting ready for anything. That is because I am lazy. This presents a problem for me because my natural hair requires serious upkeep just to keep it from becoming a tangled mess. Combing my hair is the grooming activity I hate more than anything. It’s the worst, up there with dental visits.

A little back story here. My mom is an amazing, wonderful, beautiful human being. She moved to Zambia with my dad when she was only 18 years old and was promptly blessed with a chubby bundle of Jasmine. Everything was fine for the first couple of years, but then my hair exploded. Hair combing became an epic battle.We are talking about the type of nuclear meltdowns only 3 year olds can produce. I would only allow her to comb it when I was in the bathtub, because it was less painful when wet. It was easier for everyone if my hair was cut short, so I wore a little fro until I was old enough to have an opinion about my hair.

Mom and me in 1979

Despite her amazingness, my mom wasn’t equipped to teach me how to manage my hair. These days, you can find whole websites on the topic. I was a child in the 80’s, in Canada! You could barely find a black salon in my town. Subsequently, I grew up to be a black female with zero hair skills.

It’s one of my personal goals, to improve the health and appearance of my natural hair. This requires discipline and routine. Keeping my hair tangle free is the biggest challenge I face. Recently I discovered the magic of two-strand twists. If you want to see how that is done, I recommend this tutorial by Alicia James.  The two-strand strand twists give me a new look with very little commitment other than time. It does take hours, but I do it while watching movies.

My Two-strand Twists

After I’ve worn the twists for a few days, I take them out and my hair looks awesome! It also tangles less, so that is a mega bonus. Behold my magnificent twist-out! Isn’t it fabulous?

Magical twist out.

Now, the one thing I’m missing from my routine is product. My hair is parched. It is thirsty. It could really go for a big gulp right now. So, imagine my delight when I learned that a friend of mine had started her own hair care line!  I’m all for supporting local business and Sheena’s  products are made in Canada. Sheena was kind enough to send me a sample of her leave-in conditioner, it’s called Nourish.

  I’ll be conducting my product review next week. In the meantime, you can check out Sheena’s youtube channel.

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4 thoughts on “White Mom + Black Hair

      1. Yes true. I also think that in the 80’sand 90’s we didn’t realize that products for black hair wan’t made by people with black hair. Now we are controlling our own products. Back then we didn’t know how dangerous the things we were using was for our hair health and now we are learning ourselves and teaching eachother how we can be natural, healthy and beautiful. Yes better late than never because the information we would have gotten back then probably would have been wrong.

  1. As the mystery of “Black hair” unravels, it reveal the effects of poor ingredients and false advertising in the cosmetic industry. Sheena’s Hair Care (SHC) uses natures best ingredients to Hydrate, Nourish and Strengthen your hair. SHC is not a magic potion, it will not grow your hair faster or give you someone else’s curls. But, it will moisturizer your hair and protect it from breakage. It will improve the condition of your hair over time. SHC Uses product and methods that work, taking the mystery out of your hair.

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